{"id":183,"date":"2017-05-26T15:05:00","date_gmt":"2017-05-26T15:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tdlaw.com\/?p=183"},"modified":"2023-05-10T15:20:13","modified_gmt":"2023-05-10T15:20:13","slug":"dont-get-railroaded-during-your-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tdlaw.com\/dont-get-railroaded-during-your-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t get railroaded during your divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Your divorce is both a blessing and a curse. It is a blessing because it is a chance to start anew. It is a curse because you have to divide everything accumulated during the marriage. This includes everything from property to children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As you go through your divorce proceedings, you have to ensure that you aren\u2019t letting your ex railroad you into agreeing to things that you don\u2019t find agreeable. You have to be willing to negotiate but you don\u2019t have to just agree to whatever your ex says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you are going through child custody matters, you have to put the children first. As tempting as it might be to use this part of the divorce as a way to get back at your ex, you shouldn\u2019t do that because it could cause your children to suffer. Instead, you should do what you can to ensure that your ex gets to have a relationship with the children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The property division process is complicated, especially if you have considerable assets. You have to think about how various property division arrangements might impact your life today. You also have to take a realistic look at how the various arrangements might impact your finances and your life in the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ultimately, there will have to be some compromise when you and your ex are trying to work out an agreement. 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